Love: What is Felt and Wanted

Falling in love can be felt by anyone. Some people will feel extremely happy to fall in love. They will proudly talk to the world, friends, parents how beautiful their life is. But, some others may feel it differently. They are so hopeless till they want to break up and loose it all away. Furthermore, love can also be so motivating, however it can be so frustrating. A couple who is falling in love may feel either the happiness and sorrowfulness if each of them cannot, wisely, differ between what they feel and they want.

Feeling, in my opinion, is not always about what we want. In other words, it may mean that we are trying to get what we want but when we fail to get it, we soon will fully understand that it's perhaps impossible to get. Moreover, talking about what we want, sometimes it mostly comes from our passion. It is very obvious that every time we fail to get what we want we are frustrated, angry, and disappointed. That's why every time people talk about what they feel, they sometimes complain. They cannot understand why it's all about their "partner" which makes them think sacrifice more. In addition, they tend to hide their feeling of being hurt as they don't get what they want as much as they give the "love","care", and "attention" to their "partner". It may because they love much till they finally think let their partner happy even they aren't. They want to let their partner that they are ready for anything even it is bad for themselves. 

This idea, some readers may find it different, comes to our real life. It is not a bad dream to forget. It is not a bad luck they suddenly get. It is important to be open. It is very important to talk about love, between what we feel and want, otherwise we will regret it.